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Forty moments

Forty sentences from 130 years of women writing to each other in Seattle parlors. Every one real. Every one said or written by a woman, to a room of women, between 1894 and today. Click any quote for the whole paper.

Thesis · Grief · The interior · Place & texture · Defiance · The modern ache

Thesis

We are all different women because we have known them.

Alice D. Rayner, May 22, 1919 · President's retrospective after the flu year
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One of the choicest treasures of our club life is this sweet spirit — of sisterliness (if I may be permitted that term), which is constantly growing dearer with the vicissitudes of the passing days and years.

Carrie K. Pike, September 14, 1911 · A charter member asks permission, in parenthesis, to use the word sisterliness in 1911

I can see each dear one, just how she was dressed, where she sat, how she looked, and what she said.

Anna J. Sheafe, c. 1907 · The founder, remembering the first meeting thirteen years later

Have any of you heard of her?

Pamela Miles, May 23, 2019 · Opening her paper on Adelaide Pollock, who had been forgotten for 81 years. The room shook its head.

Grief

I still love Seattle — since it left me, because I never really left it. My fondest wish is that I could be in Seattle on a meeting day and so attend one more meeting. Oh, well… one can dream.

Margaret Siegley, December 1987 · Writing from Denver at 75, 38 years after she had last been in Seattle

And that is how old she was when she died.

Dawn Mullarkey, February 14, 2008 · On her mother's death at 43, as a fortune teller had foretold. In a family that never spoke of it.

But what about me?

Joan Loop, February 12, 2009 · Widow, seventy, in the house she had fought for forty years — asking, the day before her birthday, a question a woman of her generation was not supposed to say aloud

I would like to think I am more like my Mom as she was at first.

Penny Thackeray, February 28, 2008 · On her mother, lost in a British hospital to hundreds of shock treatments. The word first doing the work.

I felt as if I had stopped living and was simply passing time until I died. I find myself at the age of 52, trying to figure out what is important to me.

Gretchen Claflin, March 28, 2007 · Telling the club she had just left her husband. She called the paper Dropping the Bomb.

I wish I could have respected her more — loved her more.

Ellen Gillette, May 24, 2007 · On her mother. The em-dash between the two verbs is the whole argument.

I miss him to this day.

Mary Rae Bruns, May 22, 2008 · Forty years after her father died at 57, having dropped her at school that morning

Belle M. Stoughtenborough, May I. Rasor, Anna M. Sheafe built their lives into the Queen Anne Fortnightly Club in a way that cannot be taken from us.

Alice Rayner, May 22, 1919 · The flu-year eulogy, five sentences near the end of the year's retrospective

The interior

The stars were there to touch and the air was like diamonds, the snow would crunch under my fingers, and I was perhaps able to enjoy it for two or three minutes before the fierceness of the winter became too uncomfortable.

Dorothea Checkley, December 1978 · On the corner of her bedroom storm window she would open in winter, at ten, on the Minnesota prairie

The snow was so hard and crisp one could hear the crunch a block away.

Dorothea Checkley, December 1978 · Walking to grandmother's house on Christmas Eve, 1928

I wore pink. I was scared pink. After that first time it was always easy to speak before this group. After all, we were all friends.

Marion Christoffersen, February 11, 1988 · On her first paper to the club, 1938, when she was twenty-eight

After all, we were all friends.

Marion Christoffersen, 1988 · The whole argument of the club, in six words

The die is cast. I now must think — must write — must study. Too late to turn back. I've joined Fortnightly.

Alsora Fry, 1898 · The rescue poem, four years in, when the club was wobbling

The stark white, hard-benched New England church I attended offered no solace.

Dawn Mullarkey, 2008 · On her mother's death in 1962, in a family that didn't speak of it

Place & texture

Simple living and High thinking.

Mrs. Carlson, mid-century · The club presidency platform, four words. She advocated simple luncheons and meaty papers.

Wait a minute until I sharpen my pencil. It won't write good.

Carrie Pike, on the telephone, in her late seventies · Remembered by a younger member fifty years later

Born September 20th, 1894. Weight: 12 members with comely faces and good healthy brains.

Carrie Pike, 1904 · The club's first ten years, written as a baby diary

Grandfather took down the big bellows from the chimney jamb and from its lungs blew life into the great pile of fragrant wood… round beech logs, split cedar, wild cherry, and bark filled the huge space between the back and fore-logs.

Molly Sackett, 1916 · Read at Fortnightly 1917, re-read by her daughter in 1960, by her granddaughter in 1970

In spite of sugar shortages, colorful cakes and ices were served.

Betty Galbraith, 1986 · Describing the first peacetime High Tea at Marian Black's home, September 1945

Here, the cars would turn with ever so much rasping and groaning to climb to the top of the then very steep hill.

Margaret Gray, 1947 · On the Queen Anne counterbalance cable car, 1900s

Mrs. Knox — a very fountain of wit and humor. Pink cheeks, white hair, and she always wore lavender.

Club records, 1895 · The charter-era Fortnightly woman who dressed like it was a hundred years earlier

A fish net was spread over the wrecked ceiling and artistically draped at the corners and filled with ferns and vines, giving such an air of elegance to the room as could never have been had in the ordinary treatment.

1907 charter-members' history · The night before the first husbands' dinner, June 1896, after the plaster fell

Ice creams shaped like baskets of fruit.

Sally Vanasse, 1978, quoting her aunt's Edwardian diary · James Boldt luncheon, Queen Anne Hill

To an outsider, it would be hard to describe just what it is that pervades the Fortnightly gatherings, making them an event to each one, but that something is always present.

Mary Bayley, 1944 · Recording secretary, describing a parlor in a war year. She would take up watercolor painting at 78.

Defiance

We weren't that kind of club.

Marion Christoffersen, 1988 · When the Federation asked for a history of the club's wartime accomplishments. They declined.

Even husbands who had reported unfavorably on Club parties in general seemed to unbend completely.

Alice Rayner, 1919 · The 25th-anniversary cafeteria dinner, Mrs. Blaine and Mrs. Bayley pouring

(Here comes the bomb!) I left home in April of last year and moved into an apartment on my own.

Gretchen Claflin, March 2007 · Announcing her divorce to the club from the middle of her own paper

Someone said it sounded better than it really was.

Dorothy Anderson, 1986 · On the wartime lists each Fortnightly member was asked to submit, cataloguing what she was doing for the defense program

Dad tripped on a step in the house, went to the hospital the next day with a broken hip and from there to Alcohol Rehabilitation. His last nine years were sober ones.

Joy Goodenough, January 2008 · Her father, at a Fortnightly Evening Party at the Checkleys', accidentally saved by the club

Adelaide Pollock is lost to history, both because she was female and because she was an educator… I think it is fitting that we honor her memory by hearing her story.

Pamela Miles, May 2019 · Opening the paper that brought Pollock back from 81 years of silence

A golden offering of love from Fortnightly for 50 years of service.

Attached to a bouquet of golden chrysanthemums, Christmas 1944 · Handed to Mrs. Pike, 84, at the only ceremony the club held for its 50th anniversary that war year

The modern ache

It is not difficult for Fortnightly members to understand the value of belonging. What we get for belonging is the possibility of friendship, camaraderie, education, good food shared with friends. Those intangibles don't come from Amazon Prime.

Pat Nugent, October 2017 · Reporting to the club on her twelve-hour Amazon job interview and her decision to turn down the job

I feel that there was a much closer cultural relationship to my childhood and that of a youngster brought up in 1800 than between those of 60 years ago and today.

Dorothea Checkley, December 1978 · Written in Seattle about her Minnesota childhood, opening the memoir

I always knew when I grew up I would leave home, but I never thought that home would leave me.

Robert Koehler, c. 1984, quoted by his mother Ann Koehler, 2006 · When his family was relocated from New York to Seattle during his junior year of college

Swim out, uncertain, swim on.

Marjorie Hemphill, February 22, 2007 · Closing line of her poem “Letting Go,” read to Fortnightly

It was one of the greatest things in my life to have her come live with us. I loved her so much.

Liz Manfredini, 2008 · On caring for her mother Dorothea through Alzheimer's. Liz was herself dying of Shy-Drager syndrome.

When Helen died I saw my dad cry — and it broke my heart — But she is with me always, and I still wear Shalimar!

Joan Loop, 2009 · On her Aunt Helen, inheritance rendered as a perfume worn fifty years after her death